So, what happens if something happens to Dad... Right now I can not be by myself and I don't believe that I can afford a full-time live in care giver. So I have the following options as I see it:

1. Live with my sister either here or in Aurora.
2. Sign over my assets to my sister and go on medicaid to see if they will pay for care.
3. Sign over my assets to my sister and move into a nursing home.
4. Try to do some intensive rehab so that I can live by myself.

What I think the outcome of the options are:

1. Kill myself.
2. Be miserable until I kill myself.
3. Kill myself.
4. I don't think there would be time for this so probably only options 1-3.